just thought about how opposite attracts.
i can never quite believe this theory although scientists have done researches on how negative and positive particles attract each other. although i know that magnets cannot be close when it's south pole meets another magnet's south pole.
so, here goes.
guys always complain saying that girls are complicated creatures. sure, of course we are. but then, the same question lingers in the girls' mind. why are guys always take things for granted?when exactly do they take things seriously?? is it when in the marriage life? is it when they study? hmmm....
i find it hilarious when there was this one time i watched the film created by the late yasmin ahamd, if i'm not mistaken, it's the movie titled sepet. there was this one scene where ida nerina said to her husband in the movie, harith iskandar that women are created to be loved, not to be understood. guys only need to love us, not understand us. hehehe...it was something like that i guess. but, somehow, i find it quite truthful. of course we want guys to understand us, no matter our fathers, our brothers, friends, boyfriends, husbands, cousins etc etc. but then, think rationally, women's emotions are just sooo complicated. it'll drive a man crazy to even understand one emotion.
as for guys, well, i'm not one so i cannot elaborate much on this side of the gender. but what i can observe and scrutinize from the behaviour of my own brother, my cousins and surely, my guy friends, they seem to always be in a carefree mode. i know guys have emotions but why is it so hard for them to express them? do they have to be stoical all the time? or are there times where they truly cry behind doors of in their rooms? for me, it depends. guy's ego are way intricate for me to comprehend. up to u guys out there to debate with me on this point.
like i said, girls are from ilmu, guys are from cendi. two opposite places which are quite far away from each other in uniten.
(god, finally, i admit where i am studying right now)
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